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Self-Confidence: The Positive and Negative Factors

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Mark Twain said he could live two whole weeks on a single compliment. Even a dog gets a pat on the head. It’s all about self-confidence













Overconfidence repels your fellow humans; low self-esteem needs lots of work so you can get out there and blow your own horn.


Unfortunately, we live in a society that feeds on negative energy and derives pleasure tossing fireballs at those who try to succeed in life.

The average family environment consists of either positive or negative energy which determines the emotional and physical status of our well-being.

Self confidence is our basic foundation. It is a built-in component at birth, develops during childhood and sculpts itself, forming our adulthood. This precious and ever-so-fragile commodity makes a stop along the way, taking on still another form called the “False Negative” and the “False Positive” factors, respectively.


The False Negative (Factor)
The “False Negative” usually stems from a family history of underachievers; negative friends; negativ…

What Your :Body Language Says About You

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What does your body language say about you?
You may have the most impressive resume and keep pace with the current fashion but your body language depicts the real you, personally, professionally and socially.
Professionally, candidates for job interviews have been rejected on the basis of their body language. The industry seeks someone with strong character, integrity and self-confidence.
During an interview, do not cross your legs, just the ankles and tuck under the chair. Sit with each hand on the arm of the chair – this sends the message I am comfortable, self confident and open to suggestions.
Avoid folding your hands in your lap; it sends the message I am unable to think for myself and I am easily intimidated.
By the same token, the successful candidate has been known to decline a job offer because they were unimpressed with the Employer’s persona, as well.



Socially, it’s about fitting in. The attractive fashionista segment is merely window dressing; poor body language sends t…